What 2023 Taught Me.
Hey friends 2023 was a hell of a year and taught me many life lessons that I needed to learn. I write this to share my story with the hopes that if you are going through similar things, you must go through these life lessons and not give up.
What 2023 Taught Me.
Let Go Of Things And People That No Longer Serve You.
This was a big life lesson that I needed to learn in 2023. It is okay to let go of a job that no longer serves you. What I mean is that if you are going to a job that is very toxic and you hate showing up to the job. Then start preparing yourself to begin the process of searching for a new job. I left a few jobs in 2023 because they were no longer serving me, meaning very toxic and I hated going to work every day. So I worked hard day and night until I found another job then I put in my two-week notice at the other job that I hated and was very toxic. I had to let go of family and friends because I was pouring into their cups but they were not pouring back into my cup. They were toxic bringing drama and confusion into my life. I had to learn that anyone who disturbs my peace of mind and happiness has to go. So if you are dealing with the same with toxic friends and family then it is okay to let them go. You deserve peace, love, and to have your cup poured into.
What 2023 Taught Me.
2. Setting Boundaries And Saying No.
Setting boundaries and saying no was another life lesson that I needed to learn in 2023. In any type of friendship, romantic relationship, co-workers, and even family it is important to set boundaries. Setting boundaries could look like if say you are in a romantic relationship and your significant other calls you out of your name in an argument. You need to let them know that if they ever do that again you are done with them and the relationship. That you will not tolerate disrespect of any kind. That is setting a boundary in how people should treat you. There were many situations where I had to set boundaries with a few people about not valuing my time, and more. I also had to learn to say no. As a former people pleaser I used to hate to tell people no and I would do things that I didn’t want to do. 2023 broke me from doing that, now if I don’t want to do something I don’t hesitate to say NO. Saying no has given me so much freedom and peace because I am no longer doing things that I don’t want to do just to make other people happy when I was very unhappy. So remember it is okay to say no when you don’t want to do something and it is okay to put your happiness and needs first.
What 2023 Taught Me.
3. To Keep Chasing My Dreams.
2023 showed me that no matter what who supports me it’s important for me to keep chasing my dreams. I had to learn that the closest people to you and even family will not always support you like you think they should. In 2024 I am not giving up on my dreams and dream life and if you are facing a similar situation you shouldn’t give up on chasing your dreams or dream life either.
What 2023 Taught Me.
4. Spirituality.
2023 was defiantly full of obstacles for me, as the saying life was lifing. Tapping more into my spirituality and belief in a higher power or God got me through my difficult days. Becoming more spiritual has made me want to continue down this path. Also being spiritual has made me want to live my life with more intention and purpose. So in 2024, your girl is living more intentionally and in alignment with what I want for my life.
What 2023 Taught Me.
5. It’s Okay To Not Have Everything In Your Life Figured Out.
2023 taught me that it is okay to not have everything in your life figured out. If you are in a season of wanting to change, grow, and level up in your life it is okay if you don’t know exactly what that looks like are how to get there. I have been in that exact season and am still here. I have just been walking by faith and taking one day at a time. Also, be kind to yourself and give yourself grace you are not alone in figuring your new life out. I am still figuring my life out.
My Final Thoughts.
So friends 2023 taught me a lot about myself and the things that I want in my life. 2023 also showed me things, people, and situations that I am no longer accepting in my life. Anything or anyone that disturbs my peace of mind has to go. I hope you all have enjoyed reading. I will see you all in my next blog post.
